Reasons why guys like being single

Even if dating is the most exciting and pleasurable period of one's life both for guys as well as girls, guys might not be ready to have a serious relationship. There are still a lot of men who likes being single and have relationships with no strings attached.

There are quite a number of legitimate reasons men have for not dating. We might call these reasons, excuses to escape or genuine grounds for not being in companionship. Here are some of the justifications guys have for being single and not ready to mingle-

They are exceptional and difficult:
Guys generally say they have different interests and are quite unique from other guys. They feel the number of women who can connect with them is quite limited and rare. They say they can't compromise on anything so it's better to stay single than having a disastrous relationship.

Independence is imperative:
Men who believe their independence and freedom is more important than being with a companion, tries to remain single. They like doing things their way and not merge their precious time with others.

Last relationship was a disaster:
They assume every woman they meet will turn out to be like their ex-girlfriend. She might have been too sentimental, emotional and demanding.

A disastrous relationship among parents:
Men who have seen a broken relationship at home at an early age tend to stay away from commitments and serious relationships. This trauma can let them stay away from long lasting companionships.

Sex issues:
Guys who have any form of sexual problems tend to stay away from dating. Even if they consult a sex therapist, they tend to believe that they can't keep their partners happy and satisfied.

Guys who believe they haven't met the right girl:
They do not want to enter a relationship until they are sure about a girl. This might also imply that the guy is either too choosy or judge quickly. But then they are perfectionists and want things their way.

The idea of having kids, scare them:
Many of the men are not scared of a relationship but the consequences of it. They are afraid of fatherhood. They just want to stay away from the usual parenting issues and stuff.

Men who don't want to grow up and take responsibilities:
Men who just hate the idea of growing up and taking responsibilities of a family like to stay single. They believe they are still in the learning phase of life and not ready for a serious dating scenario.

They feel it doesn't work out anyways:
Many guys feel that the whole dating scenario doesn't work in the long run no matter how much effort you try to put in. it might even be possible that if the guy is serious the girl is not and they might just end up being in a physical, indifferent relationship.

Fear of rejection:
Men who have seen a lot of rejections tends to stay single.


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